Why I Write as I Do / Unappreciated Pastor

February 17, 2014

by Unappreciated Pastor
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One thing I am certain of is that I am a sinner. I struggle as a dad, husband, Christian and certainly as a pastor. I think a lot of folks struggle. I don’t live up to my own expectations, much less anyone else’s. The only thing that keeps me sane is a proper understanding of justification by faith through the finished work of Christ on the cross. Romans 5 changed my life.

I am not a very intelligent person, but I do have a quick wit of sorts and can express my thoughts in pithy ways. That’s not necessarily a good thing or a bad thing. That brings me to consider whether my parody account, “The Unappreciated Pastor,” is a good or a bad thing.

As I mentioned before, I understand my own sinfulness. I also take sin seriously. I don’t want to live in it. I am rebuked on a regular basis for my parody account. When I do, I always consider if the rebuke is legitimate. I have removed posts as a result. So, there are times when I wonder “Is this whole thing sinful?” Perhaps I shouldn’t do it at all. Then there are the bloggers that post their thoughts about sarcasm and how terrible it is. I read them. I consider them. I usually come away thinking, “You know, they’re right.”

I could get into the debate about sarcasm and the Bible because I think there is a lot of sarcasm in the Bible. That argument has been made already by lots of other folks, so I will leave it alone. I am concerned about sarcasm/parody in my life. I come from a long line of sarcastic people. My granny was great at it. My mom and sister are hilarious with it. We use it all the time. We use it on one another. And honestly, we don’t get upset about it. My wife does it and my kids do it. I truly think I am a part of one of the funniest families around. We like to laugh and we like to pick on one another.

There are times we cross the line. Not with one another so much, but with others. I have to check myself. I have to tell my children at times that what they are saying isn’t appropriate because it’s coming from anger, jealousy or bitterness. So, there are times that I know it is sin. To me those times are easily recognizable. The Holy Spirit reveals my sin to me. And He is pretty busy in my life.

The Unappreciated Pastor’s musings started as a joke. I did not intend to keep the Twitter account active. I was going to say some dumb things and just quit. Amazingly, folks started following. All I was going to do was make fun of myself and the struggles that most pastors of small churches face. I’ve been in ministry a while. If I didn’t laugh at myself, there is no way I could still be doing it. I know if I need laughter, then there are others that do as well. With more than 26K followers (and counting), I am sure that people in ministry like to laugh. I think it’s a coping mechanism. And I don’t mind if folks laugh at me. Some of the posts I put are actual situations I’ve endured with maybe just a little exaggeration.

Sometimes I poke fun at people — usually a successful pastor. That doesn’t mean I don’t like him. The truth is that as pastors, we get jealous sometimes. We see folks with big ministries doing great things and wonder, “Why can’t that be me?” Now I know that’s wrong. I should be content with God’s calling in my life. But the fact is many times I am not. So, a tweet poking fun at a successful pastor shows me how silly I am. And I think it helps other pastors see how silly it is too. The joke is really more of a criticism against me than anything else is.

Deacon jokes. Wow, I make so many of them. They show me that I am blaming someone else for my “failures.” They show me that I am holding on to unforgiveness. They show me I am impatient. They show me I am not willing to train folks in the Lord.

Mega-church jokes. It amazes me that no one ever rebukes me for poking fun at small traditional churches. But some folks just will not put up with your poking fun at such churches. I know there are good churches that are large. I poke fun at them because, once again, I see a lack of content in my heart. I see myself saying, “They are only big because they are worldly.” What a terrible attitude. Now it may be true in some cases, but it’s not true in all situations. So, I see that in my heart and recognize it as a sin, and then laugh at myself about it. A tweet poking fun at a mega-church reminds me of how judgmental I can be. And that is the point of the tweet. I want others to see how silly I am being and avoid that sin in their life.

Youth minister tweets. I know I give youth ministers a hard time. But as pastors grow older, sometimes we feel like we aren’t so cool anymore. Jealousy can creep in. We have to battle that. Youth minister tweets remind me that ministry isn’t a one-man show. I need help. Senior pastors can look down their noses at youth ministers. I know; I was a youth minister. There is often tension between the pastor and youth minister. I’m not encouraging that when I poke fun at youth minsters. I’m revealing my pride so others can see it and learn from it.

The point of the account isn’t to be judgmental or critical. The point is to lay myself bare and reveal the sins and attitudes that small church pastors battle. Perhaps I’m not so clear sometimes. My motive is not to hurt anyone’s feelings. If I have, I certainly apologize for that. I just like to have fun. I like to laugh. More than anything, I like to laugh at myself. And just because I’m laughing — that doesn’t mean I’m not thinking. Laughing isn’t simply for entertainment. It can also be for edification.

There are some parody accounts I will not follow. I don’t like mean-spirited tweeting. But I follow a lot of parody accounts. And I think lots of them are great, and are helpful to the kingdom. We learn in different ways. I think humor and sarcasm are included in those ways. So, please give the Unappreciated Pastor the benefit of the doubt. I am a jerk in progress.

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Un Pastor,

I thoroughly enjoy your sarcasm. It’s hilarious, and it’s a blessing to me. Not only that, but it does shed light on our bad attitudes, and wrong thinking that we sometimes find ourselves in. But, you made a statement about other parody accounts that you follow. I would like to hear which ones you think are the best ones. I already read the Church Curmudgeon, Bitter Blue Betty, and the Surly Deacon. Are there any others I should know about?

Your Biggest Fan,
David Worley

    The Unappreciated Pastor

    Thanks Volfanoo7.

    I like Betty and the Surly Deacon. Of course Curmudgeon is the man. When I started he gave me some good advice. I think Curmudgeon is probably a really intelligent person in real life because he is often over my head. I’m pretty sure he’s a music guy as well and I don’t get some of his stuff because of the music lingo. Nevertheless Curmudgeon is probably the best there is. Lloyd Legalist makes me laugh but he gets a too close to the line for some. I know I’m missing a few.

    The ones I don’t like get out of character. They simply have a parody name but their posts are personal and often conversational. I look for parody accounts who have fun, stay in character and don’t get mean. Thanks for following David!

      Norm Miller

      I beg to differ, UP. All other parody folks just wish they were like you. Do any of them have 26K followers. Proof is in the numbers, man. — Norm

Johnathan Pritchett

Refreshingly honest.

26,000 followers and I never heard of the UP before that other post at SBC Today. with the, um, kerfluffle. Apologies for that UP, I had no idea who you were and where you were coming from, and all that.

It all makes more sense now.

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