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		<title>Memphis Pastors Take a Stand on the Definition of Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 05:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Steve Gaines, Pastor of Bellevue Baptist Church in Memphis, explains the stance that he and other Memphis pastors believe about the Biblical definition of marriage in regard to gay marriage. Watch this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C29jMZ-V25s<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://sbctoday.com/2012/05/17/memphis-pastors-take-a-stand-on-the-definition-of-marriage/' addthis:title='Memphis Pastors Take a Stand on the Definition of Marriage ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Steve Gaines, Pastor of Bellevue Baptist Church in Memphis, explains the stance that he and other Memphis pastors believe about the Biblical definition of marriage in regard to gay marriage. Watch this video:<br />
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		<title>I&#039;m Not Sorry for Being a Christian</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 14:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s really sad to hear some people whine and cry and complain about the way that some Christians have messed up in the past, or about all the bad things that they think are happening now.  It&#8217;s really sad to &#8230; <a href="http://sbctoday.com/2010/03/24/im-not-sorry-for-being-a-christian/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://sbctoday.com/2010/03/24/im-not-sorry-for-being-a-christian/' addthis:title='I&#039;m Not Sorry for Being a Christian ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s really sad to hear some people whine and cry and complain about the way that some Christians have messed up in the past, or about all the bad things that they think are happening now.  It&#8217;s really sad to hear someone  get up in front of some crowd in a coffee shop, or a poetry reading group, and apologize for being a Christian.  It&#8217;s a sad day when people listen to the lost crowd, and they listen to the lost crowds&#8217; shouts of &#8220;hypocrites,&#8221; and &#8220;mean, intolerant buffoons,&#8221; and then some Christians apologize to this angry, rebellious crowd for being a Christian. <span id="more-2395"></span></p>
<p>Maybe you haven&#8217;t seen this video of a young man making this poetic &#8220;speech&#8221; about being sorry for being a Christian.  He even uses the F word a couple of times in his &#8220;poem.&#8221;  It makes you wonder why he felt the need to use the F word in a poem, where he was going after Christians and others for all the ills of Christendom that he sees.  You can see his &#8220;poem&#8221; on this site  <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EieFdXy_HwM">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EieFdXy_HwM</a> on youtube.  I warn you now that he has a potty mouth, and he uses the F word.  But, he recites this &#8220;poem&#8221; to the jeers of the crowd.  They&#8217;re especially happy, and you can hear the laughter, when he apologizes right off the bat for being a Christian.</p>
<p>Well, I&#8217;m not sorry for being a Christian.  I&#8217;m not sorry for calling sin what it is&#8230;sin.  I&#8217;m not sorry for saying that sin will be judged by God.  Why am I not sorry?  Because a lost man&#8217;s sins will be judged by God.  And, the lost crowd needs to hear that.  How can a lost man be saved, until he sees his need of a Savior?  He cant.  So, why would I apologize for calling sin what it is, and for telling people that God is not happy with our sins?  I know that some lost people will call that intolerance, and they&#8217;ll think it&#8217;s mean and narrow; but it&#8217;s the truth.  The truth shall set you free.</p>
<p>Also, I&#8217;m sad about the loss of life at the hands of the Crusaders and the Catholic Church.  But, why should I apologize for the Crusades that happened hundreds of years ago.  I wasnt there.  I didn&#8217;t do it.  So, why should I apologize for something that happened hundreds of years ago.  Why, it wasn&#8217;t even my Church that did this thing.  It wasn&#8217;t a Southern Baptist Church.  It wasn&#8217;t any Churches that came out of the Reformation.  So, why should I, a 48 year old Believer, apologize  for something that some misguided people did a long time ago?  Why would any Christian feel the need to bring this up and apologize for it?  Why would this make anyone be sorry that they&#8217;re a Christian.  I&#8217;m not sorry that I&#8217;m a Christ Follower, just because of what some knights did back in the dark ages.</p>
<p>BTW, while we should love gay people, I&#8217;m certainly not sorry for calling homosexuality what it is.  It is sin.  It is sin that God will judge.  Now,  I know that God will also judge the adulterers and the liars and the thieves and all other sinners.  But, this young man seems to be saying that he&#8217;s sorry for calling homosexuality a sin.  Well, young man, it is a sin.  And, those people, who die in this sin, will go to Hell.  They need to be saved, and I do pray that they&#8217;ll be saved and go to Heaven.  I love gay people.  I do not hate gay people.  I wish that everyone of them would get saved today.  I certainly hope that I get to spend eternity with all the gay people in this world, because they repented and put their faith in Jesus.  I really do.  But, should I apologize for calling homosexual sex what it is?  A sin.  Never.</p>
<p>Also, I hate that there are homeless people, and I really hate that some men beat their wives.  I wish every homeless person had a home, and I wish that every wife beater would have to spend 30 minutes with CB Scott in a locked room by themselves.  But, you know what?  There will always be homeless people. Jesus said that the poor will always be here. And, some people are homeless because of the bad choices they&#8217;ve made in life, and people will continue to make bad choices, and do things like drink alcohol, use drugs, gamble, etc.  And, these choices will cause them and their family to suffer financially, and in many other ways.  Why should I, as a Christ Follower, apologize for the homeless?  I didn&#8217;t make them that way, nor can we give them all a home.  Some of them dont even want a home!  Also, why should I apologize and be sorry that I&#8217;m a Christian, because of what some drunken, mean man did to his wife?  Christians didn&#8217;t make this man into a wife beater.  Christians cant stop men from being wife beaters.  There will always be mean, ornery men out there, who will beat women and children.  That&#8217;s just a sad fact of life, and a result of the fall of man.  So, why would this make me be sorry for being a Christian?  I don&#8217;t get it.</p>
<p>Also, what Indian tribe was wiped out in the name of the Church?  I thought it was done, because white men wanted the land.  Some of it was done, because white men thought that gold was on the land that the Indians claimed belonged to them.  Why bring the Church into this?  Was General Custer a Christian attacking Indian tribes for some Church?  I mean, really; is some school out there teaching young people that the Church wiped out Indian tribes in America?</p>
<p>As I listened to this video, I was also left wondering if all Christendom should be blamed for the child abuse that has happened in  some Churches?  I was left wondering if preaching the Gospel was something that a Christian should apologize for?  And, did Christians bring in the plague?  Really?  And, maybe he doesn&#8217;t know about all the 15 year old girls and others that have been helped by all of the Christian pregnancy centers and Christian counselors that have helped women deal with the awful affects of abortion? Another thing, did Christians start wars between the nations?  Did Christians start WW I; WW II; or the Gulf War?  I don&#8217;t recall Dr. R. G. Lee declaring war on Germany.  I don&#8217;t recall Dr. A. T. Robertson declaring war on Japan.  Do yall?  What&#8217;s this guy talking about in this poem?  Why would anyone say that this poem is something that needed to be heard by all Christ Followers?  What&#8217;s the point of this young man&#8217;s poem?</p>
<p>This poem reminds me of my college days, where we had some flaky people floating around, who were anti-Church.  You know the types.  They don&#8217;t belong to a Church.  They don&#8217;t like to commit to anything.  They&#8217;d rather show up at a college, Bible study group every now and then; but they don&#8217;t get into commitment.  They&#8217;re unsound in their doctrine, and they really don&#8217;t like for anyone to help them understand the Bible better.  They&#8217;d rather complain and whine about all the bad things that they see in their minds about the Church.  Every thing is looked at thru negative glasses concerning the Church and sound doctrine.  I saw many young people on my college campus, back in my college days, who were just flaky and out there, in deep center field, on the fringe, who just saw everything negatively.  Everything was bad, and they were the ones, who could fix it, of course.</p>
<p>Well, I&#8217;m glad to be a Christian.  When I look at how most of the hospitals and orphanages in our world were started by Christians, I rejoice.  When I look at all the institutions of higher learning that Christians started, I rejoice.  When I look at all the people who&#8217;ve been helped by Churches and Pastors and Christian counselors, then I rejoice.  When I look at all the millions of people, who&#8217;ve been saved thru the years, by the witness of Christians and missionaries, I rejoice.  When I look at all the people, who have been ministered to by the prayers of faithful Christian people, I rejoice.  When I look at all the marriages that have been not only helped, but saved, due to the grace of God coming thru a Pastor&#8217;s sermons and counsel and prayers and encouragement, then I rejoice that I&#8217;m a Christian.  When I look at the people, who were at the brink of suicide, but some Christian helped them find hope in the Lord Jesus, then I rejoice.  When I think of the disaster relief teams that go out in the name of Jesus from SB Churches, and they help people in incredible, heartbreaking disasters, then I rejoice.  When I think about all the people that have been fed, their electric bills paid, their water bills paid, clothes bought, etc. ; paid  by Churches all over the USA and the world, then I rejoice.  And, I&#8217;m talking about every week, SB Churches in little towns and big cities all across this land, helping people keep the lights and the heat on; feeding children, etc.; then I rejoice.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sorry for being a Christian.  I&#8217;m thrilled to be a Christ Follower.  I&#8217;m excited about being a child of God.  I&#8217;m ecstatic about what God is doing thru the Church.  I&#8217;m delighted that God uses Christians to do so much good in our world.  Sorry?  Apologize?  Why?  Why should we apologize for being a Christian?  Aren&#8217;t you glad to be Christian?</p>
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		<title>Podcast Episode 16</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wes Kenney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Thanksgiving week edition of the SBC Today podcast includes discussions about the Manhattan Declaration, the Georgia Baptist Convention&#8217;s removal of a member church, and our Thanksgiving travel plans. We enjoyed the discussion, and hope you will, as well. Listen &#8230; <a href="http://sbctoday.com/2009/11/25/podcast-episode-16/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_" addthis:url='http://sbctoday.com/2009/11/25/podcast-episode-16/' addthis:title='Podcast Episode 16 ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewPodcast?id=274683577"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1398" title="podcast logo" src="http://sbctoday.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/podcast-logo.jpg" alt="podcast logo" width="165" height="165" /></a>The Thanksgiving week edition of the SBC Today podcast includes discussions about the Manhattan Declaration, the Georgia Baptist Convention&#8217;s removal of a member church, and our Thanksgiving travel plans. We enjoyed the discussion, and hope you will, as well.</p>
<p>Listen to the podcast using the player below, or subscribe in iTunes by clicking the logo here, or the button in the sidebar. Leave your comments here with suggestions on how we can improve, guest suggestions, or to discuss the issues we raised. On iTunes, take a moment to write a quick review for us, or just click some stars to give us a rating.</p>
<p>Below are links to the items we discussed during the podcast:</p>
<p><a href="http://manhattandeclaration.org/" target="_blank">Manhattan Declaration</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.abpnews.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;task=view&amp;id=4575&amp;Itemid=53" target="_blank">Georgia Baptist Convention action</a></p>
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