Now friend, coerced love is a contradiction in terms. There’s no such thing as forced love.
If God offers His love and His love is not received, that doesn’t mean God has failed, that means man has failed. God is love!
Jesus is weeping salty tears, and He said, “I would, but you would not.” That’s not unconditional election.
I do not believe what some reformed theologians believe and some hyper-Calvinists believe, and that is that a man in that condition cannot hear God until he’s first regenerated.
You know, every road has two ditches. On one side I think is “hyper Calvinism” and on the other side is Arminianism.